I'll reply later on.. got a migraine rn
What you wrote here, I understand what you mean, and all I can say is violence begets violence.
It's worthwhile seeing violent and punitive feminism as that, just like violent and punitive patriarchy and misogyny are exactly that.
Distorted thinking due to traumatised people who are in a lot of pain and suffering, and who want others to experience the same pain and suffering.
We benefit from stepping back and seeing the same human psychological patterns repeating. I'm always going to take a very spiritual and energy science/quantum physics viewpoint so I'll always say that the insane feminists and misogynists all have massive entities who attach and make their behaviours far darker than they would be otherwise.
That's why it's up to every single individual to take accountability and responsibility for themselves and break whatever harmful cycles and patterns they are experiencing.
We are always individuals first, and human beings first. And these societies have enabled people and weakened us so we can't maintain our sovereignty over ourselves, no matter what others do. It's really difficult and a huge learning curve. Can't be done alone, but some of it can be done alone. And should be done alone.
The fact is, it's not our job to care about another person's loneliness. Not really.
Maybe all the violent and abusive feminists are just tired of caretaking and going to extremes of codependency, of always having to make way for others.
Violence begets violence, and entities like to amplify the discord in humanity.
Because a lot of this is codependency at various levels.
No one is responsible for us if we're lonely.
No one but ourselves.
That's why men need male mentors doing stuff that makes them see their own patterns and shadow sides and help them push through and out of their misery and pain/dysfunction.
Which reminds me, I wanted to share some good projects going on.. the main information is on Instagram but they have a website
It's called the Spiritual Warrior Project.
It's genuinely up to men to pull men out. The women who have capacity and want to join can, of course.
But I also feel things are different due to multiple genocides and lack of food security and everything happening all at once everywhere. We're being attacked from all sides as humanity right now.
So a lot of this *has to be* individual effort.
There's also The Great Mystery School, lead by someone called Ihsan Abbas. That guy pulled himself out of a deep funk, granted he was more privileged being born Canadian rather than English.
He's on Instagram as well, most of the positive male coaches are. But I think his website is also live.
The world just needs enough humans to reach critical mass of spiritual awakening, growth and healing themselves enough and then the ripple effect will ensure that everything shifts.
We're not there yet as humanity as a whole, but we're definitely closer than we were 3 years ago.
The Palestinians have made an insane sacrifice to awaken humanity. We saw the real face of humanity in the Palestinian, Lebanese, Yemeni and now Iranian men. I genuinely love them.
Everyone still believes so much in separation from God, self and others and the planet, that they feel so disconnected and alienated - especially in a place like the UK, which is a prime example of a Dajjalic system, everything entirely distorted from what could be.
Having said all this, healthy and strong and empowered feminism is absolutely vital for women, and for the planet.
Violent feminism is different and once the women heal, that will eventually not be such a problem.
But it's the same for humanity as a whole as it is for individuals... Grieving goes through 5 stages and we can't skip any and we often will go back to the anger/rage stage.
A lot of us are in our Kali ma avatar (Hindu goddess) and it's not pretty.
Each woman and man has to go through all the stages of grief for the crazy world we are trying to make sense of. The feminine and masculine collectively also have to go through all the stages of grief and awakening as well.
None of this is easy.
The violence over the centuries begets more violence.
We all have so many lessons to learn, and they're mainly individual ones.
Also simple things like understanding that we have both feminine and masculine energies and the distortions in these need healing and balancing out.
A lot of violent feminists and misogynists will not be doing any of this work, will cause absolute chaos on the earth and die without taking any accountability.
It's not easy to live with, but these are extremely unjust times I suppose. We're all just trying to figure things out. The ones who are yet to have a spiritual awakening are suffering the most due to the inability to have the freedom that acknowledgement of being a multidimensional soul can bring.
Which is why it's important to clear all blockages to knowing and really experiencing oneself in one's wholeness.
The spiritual work allows the ego to heal and then finally shed the identifications until we feel whole and at peace.
But it takes lifetimes of healing to get there. Thousands of lifetimes.
And you know what the funny thing is? It's that whoever has been in the reincarnation cycle has been both male and female. So we experience how it feels and learn lessons that bring us into harmony and love and union.
We forget so easily in the veils of ignorance.
I was a Caucasian Yankee plantation and slave owner in one lifetime, very abusive and entitled one. Rapist as well to the slaves I owned.
So I'm one to talk.. 😩
